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Permalink Reply by Peener Butter CLARA Time! on February 25, 2012 at 9:18am

   I just think some people can have sex without emotions and some cannot. I don't think it's like a skill you can acquire. Although...hell, maybe it is.

   I've had trouble with the opposite. I've always felt like I date like a man, "Come please me, and then get the fuuuudge out of my house." Hahah I would always tells guys, "Nope. Sorry, no sleepovers. I don't like to share my bed" or the old "Sorry but I'm really tired, and I have to be somewhere early in the AM." Hahah hahahaha ha *sigh*

   But I'm not looking for that anymore, now I'm past that stage and trying to find someone to be with long term. It's definitely TOUGH! It's so much easier to just bone someone when you need it (and I may or may not have a friend on call for those tough days) but it's definitely more rewarding when emotion is involved.

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Permalink Reply by Cherylloveshoes on February 25, 2012 at 9:48am

I'm the same need the emotional. Until then there's the rabbit. 

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Permalink Reply by Phil on February 25, 2012 at 10:01am

Sex between two people can be great.

Sex between two people who like each other is usually fantastic.

When 2 people are in love, it isn't called sex, it's called making love, and the possibilities are limitless.

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Permalink Reply by My♥IsInOhio on February 25, 2012 at 10:34am

I couldnt even get aroused by someone I didnt have feelings for and I wouldnt want it any other way. Like Shoes said..rabbit or dolphin or whatever animal they are attaching to dildos these days.

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Permalink Reply by Peener Butter CLARA Time! on February 25, 2012 at 11:16am

What about vegetables?

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Permalink Reply by My♥IsInOhio on February 25, 2012 at 11:34am

OMG those would sel like hotcakes here in the Midwest!

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Permalink Reply by Peener Butter CLARA Time! on February 29, 2012 at 1:51am

   You mean, they'd sell like corn cakes.

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Permalink Reply by LilMrs.CantBeWrong on February 25, 2012 at 11:00am

 Once upon a time, I had sex with men I had no feelings for other than.."they were great in the sack."

It was a time in my life where I didn't want that emotional bond or commitment to a person, but I wanted sex. I was totally able to have sex without feeling emotional attachment. ( I think it was a side-effect of a failed first marriage. )

My motto was "Wham, bam thank you...sir." ( Haha )

That time in my life is over, and I'm very happily married to my second ( and last ) husband. I am more than happy to be with only one man and to have a very deep and special bond with him.

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Permalink Reply by Lee on February 25, 2012 at 8:06pm

For me, a lady has to have a certain level of personality and intelligence for me to be attracted to them, even just for sex.

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Permalink Reply by Big Italian Momma on February 29, 2012 at 12:57am

I am definitely one of those that has to have an emotional connection to someone to want to be intimate. It's frustrating because lately I am just getting alot of guys messaging or chatting who just want a random hookup, friends with benefits, or cyber/sexting. And alot of them don't take no for an answer very easily.

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Permalink Reply by Melody Cool on February 29, 2012 at 1:25am

There'd have to be an emotional connection for it to work for me. I could never just be casual with my body.

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Permalink Reply by G*A*I*L on February 29, 2012 at 3:07am

I need that emotional connection. A solid emotional connection can take sex to a whole other level. Why waste my body (and time) on anything else.

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