well as a bbw i have a lot of respect for myself . i carry myself with the utmost respect and self confidence. i carry myself in a positive fashionably manner .. don't get me wrong i like to have fun and be freaky but there is a time and place for that.. i want to set a good example for my kids and for my peers or just everyday people.. us bbw already have to deal with the negative thoughts and feelings towards us cause we dont look like barbie.. iam happy with who iam and who i was made to be ... :))