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For admirers and SSSBBWs who aspire to feed and be fed to their greatest weight potentials.

Members: 10
Created By: Stephen
Latest Activity: May 12

This is a group for men who love women who want to get fatter- we love to feed and cook for them, bake for them, and enjoy every inch and ounce they gain. The woman feels more sexually fulfilled the fatter she grows and a molten, passionate mutually satisfying bond is formed.

Unfortunately, medical misinformation and profit agenda-driven "medical" research has made men (and women) like ourselves out to be destructive and controlling freaks- which nothing farther from the truth could be the case. I for one have devoted my life to the health and hygenic care, emotional fulfillment and intellectual stimulation and growth of a woman who grew too fat to leave her home. If you are not of this mindset, you cannot appreciate it and certainly are in no postion to judge it. Those of our preferences are the last holdout of stereotyping prejudice by a fat-hating and misinformed public- my own mother told me she would have been happier if I were gay than to be attracted by such hugely obese girls. And what young fat girl is easily able to tell her parents that she wants to become hugely obese to the point of needing someone to care for her 24/7?

So this is a safe place for us to share our thoughts, desires, goals, triumphs and tragedies. And maybe we can make some friends for the rest of our lives here. We are the most misunderstood of all the admirers of larger women. Perhaps thru dialogue and discussion here, we can eliminate some myths and set the record straight.

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Creating a comfortable environment for a super obese woman

Many of us have customized our homes, and made alterations in our routines and lifestyles to accomodate the super, super-sized woman of our dreams. It's our obligation to not only be first-rate hea... Continue

Started by Stephen May 7

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Comment by Stephen on May 10, 2008 at 8:09pm: Many who don't understand consider this some type of perverted control mindgame on the part of the feeder, where some helpless woman with a non-existant self-esteem is tied down and force fed til she is immobile. Nothing could be farther from the truth. In most cases, men are actually a 24/7 slave to their women; it is the woman who derives just as much pleasure from eating and being cared for head to toe and of course gaining weight- just as a bodybuilder delights in new muscles. Yet of course, society has no problem with that. And I am not convinced that all the agenda-based for profit research has conclusively proven that being fat and getting fatter is damaging to one's health. However, supressing one's libido (sex drive) and genetic instincts are truly damaging to one's overall health. And we are talking about two consenting adults here anyway!

Comment by Gaining_Gabi on May 6, 2008 at 3:23am: Well I know that many do not understand the whole feederish fetish or the desires of some people hearts. I know there is many out there who do not understand why a women should grow, even a little.

Every single person has there own thoughts and desires, wants and needs. I know that what Stephen is trying to bring to the table is something that many people desire in the world, even though half our closet cases.

But realize that you live life once and your not getting a second chance. Just putting my two cents in. I dont know everything about this subject, but I would consider myself a foodee! I love food and growing and getting softer. I look at my body as a masterpiece and I believe that fat is truly beautiful!

I know that many of you, probably have deep desires or fetishes that you dont openly tell the world there desires or wants or cravings.

So I truly give Stephen a standing oviation for being willing to stand up and see if there our others with his thoughts and desires.

Now stop hiding behind what the world wants you to believe. Be who you are and be proud of it. If you ever had a desire to be a feedee, foodee, mutual gainer, or anything like that, stop hiding behind your fears. One thing that I always tell people

"Fear is temporary, regret is permanent"

Are you living your life in fear?
I know that I covered quiet a bit in this little comment but just had to put my two sense it. Have a great day!
Gabi

Comment by Stephen on May 4, 2008 at 7:05pm: I agree Bill. Actually, I am a care provider to a 700 lb woman (my ex) and I have installed a 1,000 lift for my swimming pool. Swimming is the ideal way of maintaining good circulation, which is tantamount to goood overall health, which having normal (120/60) BP and normal/low cholesterol, actually angers her physicians. And regular full body massage with skin care lotion is a must. I do not encourage walking at weights greater than 400 lbs due to gravity tearing up knee lining and undue stress on the ligaments and bones. But good circulation is a must at any weight.

Comment by Bill on May 3, 2008 at 9:18pm: You should take up care givng if you want a Immoble SSBBW cause you will need it alot. There is a lot of negative things that go along with that immobility. If she really wants it then Its ok but I am not into forcing so many feeders get that stigma we all want them to be immoble that is not the case. They are more sexy if they can carry the weight than just sit or lie there. Even if it is a very slow waddle that is fine. Immobility should be the last resort and be prepaired all the stuff that goes with that.