I totally think I am a wussy...I have been having problems for the last three months with my gallbladder and now have to see a surgeon on Wednesday to talk about removing it. I am also gonna ask if there is any possible way they can fix a hernia I have had for over 15 years now at the same time. I am terrified. I am trying to stay calm. I have never had any type of surgery or anything in my 33years of life that I can remember....is it normal to be this terrified?? God I hated acting like such a wussy.