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Permalink Reply by SH on January 1, 2008 at 5:25am

Well the reason I have found this out on my behalf is that where it is a small town.. I suppose they are afraid of what others may think of them. Afraid that it may get out that they are with a big girl. But what I also know is that I may be a big girl.. but I have put men to their knees with some of things I could do to them if you know what I mean.. things that these little girls couldnt or wouldnt do..lol. But dont stress about it.. its their loss hun.

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Permalink Reply by alma on January 1, 2008 at 1:40pm

don't worry shana..i live in a small town too n its hard to find a good and honest guy here too. and the ones that make a move on me they one want one thing...if u know what i mean. their problem is what will my friends say...my friends r going to make fun of me....its not us it them who don't have the guts to face the world. so don't worry about it....its their loss and believe me they don't know what they r losing. feel free to chat with me anytime u like.

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Permalink Reply by reni marie on January 1, 2008 at 5:26pm

well you didnt say where you are from but I know there seems to be a big difference in the north and the south........I lived in Pa for 2 yrs and although I was married at the time I had guys hitting on me all the time......and even now if anyone hits on me online they are usually from the north.........for some reason the men in the south really seem to prefer the skinner women....which leaves me out .......especially living in florida......they seem to want toothpicks..lol......and i agree could be because they are so worried people would judge them.....but a REAL man will not feel that way.......and I know it gets dishearting to keep putting yourself out there and making yourself "available"......trust me I deal with this everyday.......sometimes I feel ready to take on the world.....but seems like there is always some man that puts me back in my place..or where he thinks I should be........lol..........I keep thinking somewhere out there is a man that is going to love me........rolls (rolls royces , as my friend calls them)...and all.................

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Permalink Reply by OooDatSistaBigBones on January 1, 2008 at 8:54pm

The story of my life. I live in a small place in SC and there are no BBBW's admirers,as i know of that isnt of blood relations. Me n my bbw friends (and they are really beautiful) are single and we all have our head on straight--so i dont know what is happening in these small towns. A lof of the people i know around here have a bad view of big girls and wont choose a girl that is big because of what people may say about them or how they feel about it --which causes me to feel sad about the quality of men where I am at.

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Permalink Reply by blueyeznattitude on January 1, 2008 at 9:08pm

Small town or large town it doesnt really matter which. Its simply a matter of opinion and taste. Not only am I a BBW I am also taller than most men which makes it even harder. One thing I have learned is that there are men out there who dont care what size you are - they like you for who you are. It has to do with the way you carry yourself and the image you project. The way I see it - if a man cant accept me for me he isnt man enough to have me. The key is to find someone who sees past the not so perfect things but sees the beauty in those same things.

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Permalink Reply by shana on January 1, 2008 at 11:28pm

thanks all...ya'll are right bout the guys in small towns.... i live in alabama......thanks again ya'll

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Permalink Reply by Charles on June 25, 2008 at 10:44am

Men Shouldn`t Be Picky If A Woman Is Big Or Small & Those That Are Picky Are Just Pathetic!! I,Myself Would Rather Have A BBW,Because,There Is More To Love!! If A Guy Doesn`t Want To Be With A Big Woman,It`s Their Loss,Completely!!

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