I need a womans help

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Permalink Reply by MISTRESS TAMARA on March 8, 2008 at 10:35pm

i dont know about other women, but yea, i love all that passionate stuff. i dont/cant get enough of it! i'd say u're on the right track and keep it up! dont change! someone out there will appreciate it some day. i know i would.

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Permalink Reply by Crystal on March 9, 2008 at 3:47am

I like stuff like that it shows that the guy really cares in my book. I had a guy make me dinner one it was a candlelight dinner and we dressed up...it was one of the best dates of been on haha... and u better believe he got some good nookie that night too haha...

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Permalink Reply by Krissy on March 9, 2008 at 9:37am

How could any woman NOT reply to this discussion? LOL

Just out of curiosity, was it a man or woman that told you "Chicks don't like that kinda stuff anymore."?

First of all...keep in mind that each person has their own idea of romance. My feeling is that gestures or actions will be received most positively when the person you're with genuinely wants to be with you and you make them feel as though they're the only person that matters at that moment in time. I don't imagine walks on the beach, sunsets, and candlelight dinners would be very romantic if the person you're with has their mind on something/someone other than sharing that time with YOU!

Personally, it wouldn't matter where we are or what we're doing...I'd be more romantically attracted to a man who is very attentive, and notices/comments on small details such as whether I'm wearing my hair differently, that my eyes change color in certain light, when my perfume is appealing, changes in my breathing, or if I tremble when he touches me. More often than not, that is the man who succeeds in setting the stage for a very passion-filled evening!

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Permalink Reply by Rick on March 13, 2008 at 5:05pm

ty very much..

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Permalink Reply by Cara Mia on March 9, 2008 at 12:29pm

I think that is what most women are looking for.....Don't you change...just find someone that appreciates you for you!

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Permalink Reply by RavishingRuby on March 12, 2008 at 8:55am

Whoever told you that was was speaking for herself/himself. I do not believe the majority of women don't want affection, thoughtfulness, romance or passion. The whole idea that you have to treat a girl bad for her to want you is nonesense. "Girls prefer to date jerks" is such a lie. Women want their very own prince charming, each girl/woman defines it differently but in the end we want true love.

The only reason I can imagine why a woman would not like candle light dinner or walks on the beach is because she thinks it's (1) faked (2) unoriginal (3) from someone she doesnt like.

Faked. Everyone wants to feel special and unique. If a woman feels she's just another "priceless work of art, in his gallery." She's not going to appreciate or value it as much as if she feels it's something isn't sincere.

Unoriginal. Women want to experience romance but they want to feel unique and special too. Take flower giving...the flower of choice to give to women seems to be roses. It's no surprise they're the number 1 selling flower on Valentine's Day. As beautiful as roses are, there are other flowers that are as beautiful if not more beauitful than roses. I think women like to know that they are loved yet original. It might take some detective work, recommendation from a florist, or something unique that catches your eye at the flower shop but even a simple thing like giving flowers can be original.

Not Mutual. Women want to be near and intimate with a guy they like--- whether it's for his personality, appearance or both. Cuddling, hand holding, and passion are things women want when they like a guy. If a woman you really really didn't like, Rick, started hugging you, how eager would you be to hug her back? Women don't want romance and passion from a guy they don't like a guy for one reason or another.

Rick, women want passion and romance but like most things in life---how things are done is just as important as what things are done. They want to feel unique. They want to feel like its just for them. They want it from someone they like. Don't give up your style of thoughtfulness and affection, women appreciate what you described, wait to share it with someone who loves you back.

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Permalink Reply by Samantha on March 13, 2008 at 6:14pm

I dunno, I like that stuff, but there are women who get uncomfortable with all that stuff. I mean, it doesn't just take romance to catch a woman nowadays, either. Women (or at least I) want a strong man who can be there for me when I need him, who can hold my interest in an intelligent conversation, and other things like that. I live romance, but I'd never date an idiot. Or someone really shallow. But that's just me.

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Permalink Reply by brown bear on March 15, 2008 at 6:08am

rick i do know that women want passion, but its what kind do they like. also you cant have passion for two. you'll keep putting in and get nothing in return. i've learned to keep it simple and thoughtful, unless your rich.if you dont get the response from that person you love then communicate but dont beg or plead. if you get the same passion and love in return then you have some one special.

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Permalink Reply by Jacehardtjr on March 15, 2008 at 11:38am

I think women still enjoy romance. If you are comfortable with doing it you should continue to do so.

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Permalink Reply by Mable on March 15, 2008 at 4:19pm

i think everyone is different i know i personally enjoy it but there maybe ladies out there who dont.

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Permalink Reply by Caitlin on March 15, 2008 at 6:01pm

IM NOT SURE WHO LiED TOO YU AND TOLD YOU THAT WE DiDNT LIKE THT

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Permalink Reply by Sarah on March 15, 2008 at 6:10pm

OMG....of course women still like that sort of stuff! Let me correct that.... women LOVE that stuff!
Whoever told you the opposite....check their breath for alcohol....or their eyes for redness cuz they have been smokin some powerful stuff my friend!
Its just a matter of finding the right one out there.
They may not be right around you.
Or hell,, they may be down the street. Ya never know.
Women love affection for the most part. Not smothering though, there is a difference.
But the romantic dinners by candlelight, walks on the beach(with no rocks..lol), sunsets, and holding hands.... that is what its all about man.
Good luck in your search!

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