Don't you just get tired of hearing....

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Don't you just get tired of hearing....

Posted by buggie2206 on March 18, 2008 at 12:04am in Plus Size Lifestyle

Hey whats up my name is Ashley, but alot of my friends call me bug. So yes ever since i can really remember i have always been told that i have a pretty face, but im heavy. Okay so it is nice to hear that im pretty or well that i have a pretty face, but why do they always add,(but you're heavy) DUH!!! Like i can't see that!! ugh dude shut the hell up!!! why is it that whenever you get into a fight with someone or an agrument or whatever the first thing they bring up is your weight? it's like is that the best thing that you can think of? It gets so friggin old. I just wish people could get over the fact that some people are big. Its none of your damn buisness what we look like... or how we live our lives. Leave us alone.

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Permalink Reply by THE MAN WITH BIG EARS! on March 18, 2008 at 1:38am: no worries there are plenty of us who like bigger woman in person............ the personality counts thats about it for me plus most bbws are stunning to me keep those skinny dog bones at home!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jess on March 18, 2008 at 8:09am: Beauty is beauty, no matter the size. I agree it is a pain to hear people act like that your size is something that can "just change." Society is to blame for that take-a-pill-and-your-life-is-better thinking. It is NOT that easy... if it was, I doubt half of the US population (maybe more?) would be obese. Best thing to do is just keep your pretty head up when someone says that and comeback with, "I know I am beautiful, thank you." :)

And anybody who throws your size into your face at the start of an argument is NOT worthy of your beauty. :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jacehardtjr on March 18, 2008 at 8:18am: I agree with you. It is amazing how people can dismiss everything about you just based on your size. I also am amazed that people assume that you are desperate because you are large. UGH.

People like that need to keep moving... you are so right!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Telula on March 18, 2008 at 5:54pm: Tell them "I think I'm just perfect" ! LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Telula on March 18, 2008 at 5:57pm: New here and it is nice to read all the men's great replies on this site......even though I can find one to love me ! GRRRRRRRRRR LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Liv For Peace☮ on March 18, 2008 at 7:41pm: Ahh I agree with you completely. That's happened to me. I remember once this lady was like "You have such a pretty face, but you need to lose weight, I see you've lost some though, your body use to be nasty." and I *THINK* she meant it as a compliment, but I was just like, completely shocked and I just stared at her. and she was like "Anyways! I have to go, it was nice talking to you again."

Some people are ridiculous.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Telula on March 22, 2008 at 2:30pm: Liv - you're good, b/c I think I would have swung first and asked questions later LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Liv For Peace☮ on March 23, 2008 at 1:33am: LOL. I couldn't believe it! She was this older lady, and I was working as a subsitute at this place. I couldn't understand how someone would think that's an acceptable thing to say. It was terrible, because I was very uncomfortable with myself at the time. Haha.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by WeirdnWonderful on March 23, 2008 at 10:57pm: "Yeah, man, you have a nice body but your face could really use a bag."; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Lostinyou on April 10, 2008 at 2:06pm: sigh I feel you whole heartedly. I had some lady say it to me, like are you gonna jump my bones if I were slim? my grandfather says it to me all the time. sigh, whatever its not like I can unscrew my gut; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by LuvlyDoll on May 13, 2008 at 4:29pm: Oh my. Don't I hear that every now and then... You have such a pretty face, if only you'd lose some weight... Wth. Go away!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kelly F on May 13, 2008 at 5:28pm: Gah i hear this all the time.. such a pretty face.. yea well the face suits me and it goes with all of me.. so over all i'm perdy! Thats the way i make it out in my head.. even tho i really know what they are trying to say lol; ▶ Reply to This