You've got a beautiful face.

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You've got a beautiful face.

Posted by Carm on March 24, 2008 at 11:08pm in Love & Relationships

Am I the only one who's sick and tired of hearing this line? Sure, I appreciate that you think my face is beautiful... but why can't we just leave it at "you're beautiful". I don't compliment guys by saying "wow, you've got a gorgeous arm". I don't know... maybe it's just me. It's just one of those little compliments that sting there at the end. But like I said... maybe I'm just the only one who finds that a little aggrivating.

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Permalink Reply by Cynicole on March 24, 2008 at 11:14pm: lol NO its not just you...I hear this all the time from not just guys but family will throw "face" in with it. It makes me think, "so you think the rest of me is ugly?!"

haha yeaaaaaa I truly appreciate the compliment because its meant to be nice.. but you ARE right on with this one; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Lisa on March 24, 2008 at 11:31pm: You're not alone.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mark on March 26, 2008 at 11:36am: This thread reminds me of a shirt slogan I once saw--"You've Got a Beautiful Face...but it's your body I want to bang the hell out of right now." Next time someone gives you the beautiful face line, just imagine that's what they're thinking in the back of their mind, its probably true more often than you know ;); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Carm on March 26, 2008 at 2:02pm: Now THAT I can handle! haha, thanks Mark!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by ouichanel on March 26, 2008 at 9:15pm: That sentence is the story of my life.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jennine on March 27, 2008 at 2:31pm: youre not the only one. it happens to me all the time i mean whats up with that guys?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by CoCoSexxiBBW on March 27, 2008 at 3:33pm: No girl....It is not just you!!! I get that line too all the time. I'm like what my body can't be cute too!!!! I'm cute all around!!! Yeah that compliment burns me up too girl.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ana on March 28, 2008 at 1:18pm: I really don't get why people think it's ok to say "you've got a beautiful face..." (and you just KNOW that in their heads their are finishing the sentence with ...you just need to lose some weight) is like going to someone and saying "you've got a really hot body, you just need a paper bag on your head".; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kerrie on March 28, 2008 at 4:12pm: I have actually gotten "You've got such a pretty face. If only you would
lose the weight." I mean, I'm glad for the face compliment...but not when
it is shot down with a weight comment.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Zystyna-Zay on July 3, 2008 at 8:16pm: You are so right about that...a few years ago I was denied a spot on a all native calendar cause the same thing was said.Quote" Your face is stunning but you could loose 50 pounds and then we would love to consider you" Uuggggg man that was the day I felt the fattest in my life and started a eating disorder that nearly killed me. I have over come that now and have a beautiful son that is my world and no one aint breakin me down!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by April on July 5, 2008 at 12:41am: hiya there Carm and happy day to ya..ya know it used to bother me..when i was seriously un kool with myself ..body and mind..i would get pissed off..but usually just soo sad i want to cry..like my best friend..she used to say all the time..and she knows that time in my life when i was so unsecure and shed say.".april u have such a beautiful face..i wish u could lose some weight and ud be soooo purrdyy and more men would want to go out with you.." OMFG ..U DONT SAY THAT!!! damnn!! then..one day not too long ago..i finally found myself and it was watchign PHAT gIRLZ..that movie kicks assssss btw!!! and watching that a few times i relized..hell with everyone else..soo though most people dotn mean anythign by it..but those who do we all know they know..soo what i did with my friend was when she said that AGAIN one day..i said awwww thanx!! ur bony ass is lookin more boney today too hun!! and after a quick meow fight and i explained how i felt..shes cool and doesnt say it anymore..soo thats what i do.,,have a good one sweety..April; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by griffe on July 17, 2008 at 2:41am: Ok, as a guy I look at a face and say it is beautiful and I think that is is a very atrractive face, but I also know that with the face must come some traits I can come to cherish. Now, a face is a face but a woman with a ok face or a face with scars but has a soul that welcomes you like a warm summer day is beyond pretty it is perfection. I get alot when people talk to me that black guys love big women and for many of us it is true................why do you say it is simple as a child we grow up around big, pretty faced, strong, caring and loving women so as adults of course we go for them and we feel forfilled. But, to summarize I can call a woman of size with a pretty face beautiful and mean it because I know that as I look at her I am thinking will she ever look at me as I am looking at her. And, if she does then I will not have to look an further for someone to be with. Oh, and some women do say things like you have a nice ass or nice package trust me it is as annoying to men who want to noticed by someone they like for themselves not what their body just looks like. We just don't get to say anything because once we do we get called alot things that are not right.; ▶ Reply to This