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Posted by tammy on May 3, 2008 at 10:34pm in Plus Size Lifestyle

I am sorry... I can't keep my mouth shut about this. I was perusing the home page here and noticed among the different groups was a group for feeders and people wanted to be fed till they gain as much weight as they can. I had to read this page. I was horrified when I read the part that said that the medical community is misleading people into thinking that being that obese is bad for a person physically. Now I believe in freedom of speech and I believe a person should be free to do what makes them happy, But I think that this is only true if one is not doing anything to hurt themselves or someone else. This is just my opinion but it seems to me that there might be some kind of mental illness involved in this kind of behavior. With both the individuals doing the feeding as well as the individuals doing the eating, and if these people have some kind of mental issues then what they are doing is not right. You are fooling yourselves if you actually believe that a morbidly obese person can be healthy. Before anyone gets on my case I AM considered extremely maybe even morbidly obese. Due to the fact that I am 5' 6" and close to 300 lbs. I know from personal experience that I feel a lot better when I lose weight. I breath better. I sleep better and I move better. I have less pain and more energy. My health in general is pretty good but I know if I stay at this weight it will take its toll when I am older. I am not saying this because some doctor told me. I am speaking from experience. I come from a family of morbidly obese people and I have watched their health become progressively worse as they age. I feel sadness for these so called feeders and their feedees. I know I know I just opened up a can of worms.... remember this is just my opinion...

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Permalink Reply by BBW_Princess on May 23, 2008 at 12:39am: Kathleen i love you lol, I was thinking the same thing reading her post. I need to add you as my friend you are fabulous.

Permalink Reply by FallsScorp77 on May 23, 2008 at 10:11am: Kathleen, the nature of your response further justifies my argument. Thank you.

Permalink Reply by Alex Johnson on May 23, 2008 at 12:08pm: I agree that it was rather harsh. but the one point she makes is that if someone doesn't like you because you've gotten big or something along those lines, I'd kick them to the curb. that's just me though

Permalink Reply by Kathleen on May 24, 2008 at 12:58am: Oh im sorry, maybe I should of got out my thesauraus and written some big girl words. Give me a break. You saying that you had a life threatning operation not for health reasons, but to make sure that your man continues to love you says it all itself there also. Guess what, he doesn't really love you, or he would not have accepted the potential of your death so he can tell all his buddies, hey I got me a skinny one now. My GF DIED last year from gastric bypass. Not for a mans love, but because she got tired of not being able to walk anymore and live a fufilling life. There is a big gorgeous world out there ready for the taking, and to let some man choose your path has got to be the dumbest thing I have ever seen or heard. The day I let anyone tell me that they do not love me as much as they could because I am fat is the day that I will take my last breath, and him too..

Permalink Reply by FallsScorp77 on May 24, 2008 at 9:02am: Kathleen, let's agree to disagree and not be angry / misunderstand one another here. My relationship was one of MANY reasons to have gastric bypass. I had the surgery to save my health - a laundry list of co-morbidities. My relationship was indeed suffering because of my weight- my boyfriend was unable touch me because I was continuously in physical pain from being so large. My back, knees, hips, ankles, shoulders- everything continously hurt due to being crushed under my 350+ pounds of weight. It wasn't because he wasn't attracted to me - it was because I was hurting 24/7. My career was suffering because I had ZERO energy from being massively overweight- continuously at the doctor's office. I could go on and on and on about how the surgery has turned my life around for the better. I thank god every day that I went through with it. I am very sorry to hear about your friend who passed away.

Permalink Reply by Kathleen on May 24, 2008 at 10:20am: If you know all the horrible side effects from being so obese, they why would you promote such a lifestyle. I myself was almost 400 pounds, and I have to honestly say that I would rather go under the knife again than be that large. Everything hurts as you just stated yourself. You seem like such an intelligent person, but why let an emotional succubus make you think otherwise. Everyone is entitled to do whatever they wish, God Bless America, BUT when you are basically promoting death for someone in the cover up of such romantic and loving situations, it is so wrong..Have you read and thought about what he says. Yes he does his house up to accomodate the super obese, but not help them get to a size where they are healthy, and able to be self sufficient, but to keep them trapped in a hellish sized body, and at his beck and every sexual whim. When you are in denial your going to tell anyone who will listen that you loveeee your 700 lb girth, but knowing what it is like to be half of that, to agree with that is just, I cant even think of an appropriate word. I agree to disagree with you, and this whole topic is going to be the heart attack of me. I am glad you are better. Ty for the kind words of my friend Mary who passed. She is an awesome woman, so full of life. I still cannot bring myself to put her in the past tense..

Permalink Reply by Kathleen on May 24, 2008 at 12:50am: Noone picked a "fight". This is a public forum for ANYONE to express there views. Because someone stated an opinion that was gravely different from yours of course being a predator you chose to spew a bunch of medical propaganda. You ask any medical professional and they will tell you that it is so wrong on so many levels to be that obese. Not only from the physical aspect, but you cannot tell me that any remotely sane person would want to live out there day confined to a bed with the only view to the outside world is a window, and some friggin tv, oh and what you tell them is out there. I am a very open minded person, but I will NEVER accept the fact that it is ok for someone to put undo harm on another human being unless because they want to get a nut. Im sure you will never want to be confined to a bed, never getting the chance to walk through the park, to see a live christmas tree on a winter ride, hell walk at all. The depression aspect is great there. You on the other hand are an emotional succubus, sucking the life out of women who are depressed, unhappy, and willing to do anything to gain some love and attention. If you do not want a respnse to what your saying, then dont post it. I do not like some responses I get to things, but Im up for a good debate, but you cannot do that when the other people are so ignorant. Seems to me if you think the medical comunity is so WRONG, then maybe you should focus your attention on getting a medical degree instead of shoving food down someones throat while wanking off.

Permalink Reply by tammy on May 24, 2008 at 9:06am: I didn't pick a fight. I didn't judge. I simply stated my opinion. If you didn't want your opinion judged you shouldn't have replied. This is an open forum for all to put their 2 cents in. If you think what you are doing is right it shouldn't matter what anyone thinks. You obviously didn't read my post that defended my open mindedness..... I am an obese tattoo artist and body piercer. I am a liberatarian. I have close ties to the gay and transgendered community ( I am a make up artist and I help preoperative and post operative male to female patients learn to do their make up and hair for their transition) I am a member of G.l.a.d..... and the list goes on.... I am pretty sure that would put me in the open minded category. Now I am totally out of this discussion. ( clicking to option to stop following this thread)....peace out!

Permalink Reply by Kathleen on May 24, 2008 at 10:27am: Tammy you are in a no win situation. When you are essentially dealing with a man who is deranged and a predator. . I WANT, I THINK, I DID NOTHING WRONG, IT WAS HER FAULT PEOPLE ARE BEING MEAN TO ME, LOOK AT ALL THE GOOD THINGS I DO TO HELP SUPER OBESE WOMEN HELP ME ATTAIN HERO WORSHIP.. You cannot have a conversation with someone who promotes death. At least Kavorkian helped people who were at deaths door and terminal to carry out there final wishes in a humane way with the people they love beside them, but he went to jail for that. Here you have a criminal mastermind who clouds himself under the illusion he is doing these woman a favor by keeping them prisoner in the own bodies, instead of showing them the life they could have all in the end to attain a super orgasm. I have nothing left to say. I am hitting the do not follow button myself. Love and Peace to everyone..

Permalink Reply by LuvlyDoll on May 24, 2008 at 10:46am: I had no idea being open minded means to embrace every sick, unhealthy perversion there is in this world.. Hell, let's embrace pedophilia, necrophilia and what not.. It's something new! It's something we don't want to get involved with, so it must be being "open minded"..
And yeah, your "light" is rather rotten..
I guess you've never been obese, especially not super obese, so that means it's YOU who don't know a thing about it and apparently wishes not to. You speak of what others have told you and we speak of what we know and what we have experienced ourselves with OUR bodies. So please cut the "you know nothing about it" as far as the health being fat/obese/super obese goes...

Permalink Reply by Big Ben on May 30, 2008 at 1:15pm: I don't have any problem with giant chicks but anyone that suggests getting as fat as you can is healthy in any form is severely retarded ;-)