"I'm really not attracted to big women."

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"I'm really not attracted to big women."

Posted by Suzie on May 15, 2008 at 1:37am in Love & Relationships

OMG...I am so tired of hearing this from men who are hitting on me. STOP FRIGGIN LYING!!! Now I'm no mud duck...but I don't believe that there's something so magical and amazing about me that it makes these men who have always been attracted to women who are built like 11 year old boys suddenly want to be with a big girl. My hubby has a friend who has told me so many times about the dirty dreams he has about me...but always has to tell me how he doesn't even like big girls. Well...guess what idiot...yes you do...cuz I am definitely a big girl.

Where do these punk ass men who are so stuck on what someone else might think about their preferences come from? Why don't they feel like little girls for worrying about it. I wish I would ever waste a minute of my life worrying about what someone else thought about what I was attracted to. I like big men with calouses on their hands. If I wanted soft I'd be a lesbian. I like men who look like they've put in a hard day's work. Lots of women don't want any part of a man who doesnt' have clean nails and nice clothes. They can have all those pretty boys...I need the bathroom to myself...I can't share it with some metrosexual. Gimme a man's man every day. So why can't these men be half the man I am and just admit that they like some meat on their woman's bones.

Big girls are where its at baby...accept it...revel in it...enjoy it. Quit being PUNKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by BBW_Princess on May 30, 2008 at 2:23am: omg i have totally gotten that line too... yea like fat girls only come in ugly right.... whatever... ugh; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Shhhugar on August 8, 2008 at 11:53am: LOL...wtf is that dumb ass line about! I don't know about you ladies but my standard reply is "Thanks and you're not too bad looking yourself for an a$$hole." But hey that could just be me....; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Zombée on June 20, 2008 at 9:24pm: lol, or the whole "You have a really beautiful face" Like trying to be as nice as possible in that patronizing, befriend-the-fat-chick way. Gotta love that.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by hereeyeam on June 15, 2008 at 9:10am: I went thru the same thing all my life for liking the bigger ladies. Many guys criticized the women I dated but in the end they would be curious by asking, "How was she?" Of course I told them figured it out for yourself.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Calientenfrente on May 16, 2008 at 3:23am: praise God... someone has finally mentioned this. I totally agree. I'm still in college... I'll be a senior at an engineering school (75% male) in the Fall. Anywho, I was realllly digging this guy John and we ended up making out one night and he went back to my apt... no sex or anything. Anywho, I started IMing him on aim and he wouldn't respond and I would try to talk to him over facebook, and he'd respond but real quickly. One night I went back to his fraternity house cuz they were having a party and talked to him. He came out and told me we could only be friends and i told him "heyyy i understand, you don't want your fraternity brothers ragging on you for dating a big girl" and his response was "thanks for understanding..."!

Can you believe that shit! Ughhh to this day I refuse to talk to him. I know he liked him me, he invited me to his fraternity formal before we made out, but his brothers talked shit cuz i was a big girl. Whatevz, he wasn't worth my time anyhow.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Newfie Chick on May 16, 2008 at 7:17am: Suzie you totally ROCK...and well said to I might add...seriously men can be so defensive about who they are seeing...who gives a flying rats butt what anyone else thinks...are they in the relationship...do they sleep with you, or go places with you or anything like that...I think its us who should be ashamed and feel sorry for their lame asses for not being man enough to say yes this is my girl and whats it to ya...geez what happened to free thought, my last boyfriend was no Brad Pitt but he was a good egg and had a good heart and it didn't matter that people couldn't believe that I(yes me the fat chick lol) would go out with him...deal with it...to all the men who can't come outta the closet, stay in there and I hope you are happy by yourself and to all those of you who do truly appreciate us cool BBWs right on I say; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Big Ben on May 16, 2008 at 11:50am: did he get your number?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Newfie Chick on May 16, 2008 at 4:10pm: oh yeah what a line...I hope you respond something like I'm not usually into men who are idiots...and tonight is no exception...that line is ranked up there with you have such a pretty face or if you lose x # of pounds you'd be a knockout...pfft then my response is something like i am fine the way I am but you are obvious brain deficient; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mari82inOR on May 16, 2008 at 4:54pm: lol@ a pretty face. When I hear that from a man, I stop talking to him. Evidently, he is implying that I have a pretty face and everything else is unattractive... well, there is no point in talking to me if that is what he believes/thinks.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by LuvlyDoll on May 22, 2008 at 7:09pm: I think you kinda misunderstood. We're not saying we don't like being complimented on our faces.. There's a difference between "You're beautiful" and "You have a beautiful face". Some people even emphasize that "face".. Trust me, that "hate" towards the body type can be felt in such a line.. Actually, I've never gotten that from my boyfriend or a boyfriend to be (means people who are attracted to me), only from my parents' friends/random people from the streets.. I don't have a problem getting "You have pretty eyes", but that "You have such a pretty face" creeps me out. Better say nothing at all LoL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by sweetsie77 on May 22, 2008 at 1:25am: I had a similiar thing happen to me recently. I wasn't even looking in this man's direction. He saw me at a club and told me I was beautiful. I invited him to my bday party and we hit it off. His ugly ass friend came along and was like Damn she's big! First of all he looked like something that came out of someone's ass literally. The guy looked embarrased and apologizes for his friend. So he comes to my party and who tags along? Ugly ass friend in need of a clue... As the night wore on his friend procceded to get drunk as hell. I was in the kitchen getting ice around and he comes in. I assume he's getting a drink or something. He says to me "Damn my bad about earlier I was just shocked a big girl could be so damn fine!!" Huh? Mother fucker what? I laughed... Then he goes on to say how much of a player his friend and just hating on him. I thanked for his advice and told to get the fuck out of my face. I told his friend about it and he said his friend was an idiot. I agreed that he was an idiot and I said your'e friend is a closeted big girl lover. What a loser!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by LovelyladyDee on June 4, 2008 at 7:43pm: Hmmm... I love your post this is exactly what i use to go through in high school because all the guys liked me but when their friends were around then i was just a friend as well that used to piss me off so bad. and now that i'm 21 and my confidence is way high guys always hit on me and try to get with me and what not and i just laugh because it's funny how things change and sstay the same some men are just so fucking stupid they will hit on me and then when act like the shit nevber happened fucking losers oh way i found my special someone hopefully you will all find yours because you are all beautiful ladies... MWAHZ!!; ▶ Reply to This