"I'm really not attracted to big women."

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"I'm really not attracted to big women."

Posted by Suzie on May 15, 2008 at 1:37am in Love & Relationships

OMG...I am so tired of hearing this from men who are hitting on me. STOP FRIGGIN LYING!!! Now I'm no mud duck...but I don't believe that there's something so magical and amazing about me that it makes these men who have always been attracted to women who are built like 11 year old boys suddenly want to be with a big girl. My hubby has a friend who has told me so many times about the dirty dreams he has about me...but always has to tell me how he doesn't even like big girls. Well...guess what idiot...yes you do...cuz I am definitely a big girl.

Where do these punk ass men who are so stuck on what someone else might think about their preferences come from? Why don't they feel like little girls for worrying about it. I wish I would ever waste a minute of my life worrying about what someone else thought about what I was attracted to. I like big men with calouses on their hands. If I wanted soft I'd be a lesbian. I like men who look like they've put in a hard day's work. Lots of women don't want any part of a man who doesnt' have clean nails and nice clothes. They can have all those pretty boys...I need the bathroom to myself...I can't share it with some metrosexual. Gimme a man's man every day. So why can't these men be half the man I am and just admit that they like some meat on their woman's bones.

Big girls are where its at baby...accept it...revel in it...enjoy it. Quit being PUNKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by sweetsie77 on May 22, 2008 at 1:25am: I had a similiar thing happen to me recently. I wasn't even looking in this man's direction. He saw me at a club and told me I was beautiful. I invited him to my bday party and we hit it off. His ugly ass friend came along and was like Damn she's big! First of all he looked like something that came out of someone's ass literally. The guy looked embarrased and apologizes for his friend. So he comes to my party and who tags along? Ugly ass friend in need of a clue... As the night wore on his friend procceded to get drunk as hell. I was in the kitchen getting ice around and he comes in. I assume he's getting a drink or something. He says to me "Damn my bad about earlier I was just shocked a big girl could be so damn fine!!" Huh? Mother fucker what? I laughed... Then he goes on to say how much of a player his friend and just hating on him. I thanked for his advice and told to get the fuck out of my face. I told his friend about it and he said his friend was an idiot. I agreed that he was an idiot and I said your'e friend is a closeted big girl lover. What a loser!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by LovelyladyDee on June 4, 2008 at 7:43pm: Hmmm... I love your post this is exactly what i use to go through in high school because all the guys liked me but when their friends were around then i was just a friend as well that used to piss me off so bad. and now that i'm 21 and my confidence is way high guys always hit on me and try to get with me and what not and i just laugh because it's funny how things change and sstay the same some men are just so fucking stupid they will hit on me and then when act like the shit nevber happened fucking losers oh way i found my special someone hopefully you will all find yours because you are all beautiful ladies... MWAHZ!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by hereeyeam on June 15, 2008 at 9:24am: My feeling is that all women are beautiful whether they are big, small, tall, short, dark or light. You should love the person for who they are not what they look like. After a while of being with someone the looks fade and that's where feelings come in. I started hanging out with a big girl in high school that I really liked. When friends came around I treated her differently also. We stopped seeing each other and we just parted ways. I really loved her very much and for that reason have sworn to myself to never let it happen again. If friends don't like the woman I am with WHO CARES!! I am the one seeing her NOT THEM!!!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jenny girl on June 15, 2008 at 11:00am: Well. I think it takes a real man to say how they feel and not be afraid of what people have to say. I get hit on all day and night. And if I decide to give a guy a shot they want to stay in. When I say I wanna go out, they say and do what? As if they are trying to keep this behind closed doors..I love paintballing! I love clubbing. Partying.Hell, even the occasional hide and go seek lol Im very active. This is a big part of my personality. I have so much energy...Well, needless to say that relationship didnt last long. It just sucks that I'm surrounded by schmucks.

If theres a guy in Dallas thats not afraid of walking around with a fat girl, holla at me. lol; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by hereeyeam on June 15, 2008 at 1:11pm: To this day I still have feelings for that young lady. I honestly wish that when I was younger I would have listened to my heart and not my head when the guys came around.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Jo on June 5, 2008 at 2:51am: Haha, that was AWESOME!!! Preach it!!! :); ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by deedee on June 19, 2008 at 1:16pm: i think most are concern about what their friends,family,etc. would think and say, if they had a big woman in their life. those are the men no woman should want. be-it; she's small,medium,or large.it proves he's a superficial jack ass! i'm not even a bbw but i'm considered thick,(being 50 lbs. over the weight society says i suppose to be,like i give a shit!),i don't have any problems with men not liking my size. i always get you look good! or if his friends around,he would be more like....damn!,whatcha looking at my girl for?...still any guy i date...bet not even act as though he's not proud to be with me. i will red tag his butt in a minute. and i agree with you concerning those pretty boys that don't know what hard work is all about. i don't need or want any man who thinks their prettier than i am,who's in the mirror more than i am,( i don't even stay in a mirror).i chatted with many men...online and in person....be careful ladies...this is what i've heard from so many....we like big women!...but those who have a figure!..i knew that before i've even heard it. they said...if you say you have a big butt...make sure it's sticks out,not being wide and flat!, not having a stomach that makes you look like you're pregnant! like i tel men...they say that in your ads!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mary on June 21, 2008 at 8:49am: AMEN !!!!! preach it . This is so true . i am so tired of these pretty boys saying they dont liek big girls.
When i was younger everytime i heard a pretty boy say i dont like big girls it was like a challenge . and belive me it might have tooken me a week or so . but i would have that pretty boy so hooked he would be blowing up my pager . So i would just say pretty boys are not what i'm in to you where just something to play with till a reach my bad boy . it would be so sad . i still have men from my past find my on these sites like myspace facebook migente and be begging to see me. Let me tell you something i am not all that . but i know i am more than a bag a chips thats skinny girl is throwing up in the toilet. ...lol; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Graham on June 21, 2008 at 9:01am: lol nice mary... particularly liked your ending statement :D; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mary on June 21, 2008 at 9:06am: Thank you, thank you , But society keeps telling women they need to be skinny to be loved and it's getting to the point that now we have deseased skinny girls all messed up in the head trying to be skinny . Magazines the new billboards all the talk about is fat and skinny . sorry i'm not fat i am just more to love . Yes some of us have some health problems but as long as that does not stop us from enjoying the world and loving our friends and family . Anf it does not intefere with great sex . who cares live and let live .; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Sarahbear1706 on June 25, 2008 at 1:53am: I refuse to date a man who wouldn't want me to be me. I'm a big girl always have been and always will be. I need a man who is confident and doesn't always worry about what someone else is thinking. It took me too long to be comfortable in my skin to have to worry about someone else not having the confidence to be with me ... don't waste my time like that!
I feel the same way about the metro thing!!! where the hell did this metro sexual thing come from.....put it back I don't want it! I love a man who comes home and smells a tiny bit like sweat drives me mad cause me smells like a MAN. I primp and do my hair and nails and make up and all the usual girl things to be feminine and pretty I don't want a man who does the same stuff I do. I don't want to date a man who gets a pedicure more than me ... or at all in fact NO PEDICURES MEN!!! I hate the pretty boy thing! I come from a family of mainly men I have 6 brothers and no sisters. All of the men in my family are... manly men football players and basketball players and they are just manly thats what is attractive to me. I'm not saying I don't like it when men look good and smell nice but really where did all the MEN go??; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by jenny girl on June 25, 2008 at 2:07am: sarah, I have to disagree. I love metro's. I love when smell good. I always do. I like for them to be clean and well groomed, so we can do all the dirty stuff in the bedroom. ; p; ▶ Reply to This